And there are ways for tulpas to help you in ways nobody else can. Nobody can understand you as deeply as such a companion can. They share your thoughts (to some degree) and memories, after all.
I’ve said before, overlord, that’s it’s really important to work on developing her personality, values, and giving her a wide variety of experiences to grow from. Whether you take that advice is up to you though.
@salad I don't know how that's possible but....my life experiences have basically been a series of fights since I left home, and prior to that it was a long period of fighting, just without weapons